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Control Environment for Success
By
Bill Hodges
©2003 Hodges Seminars International I’m reasonably sure that cavemen never argued about whether
man was a product of his environment or his heredity, but I would guess the
argument started shortly thereafter. Is it his gene pool that makes a certain
man successful or is it the environment that surrounds him? If it is the first,
there is little we can do to improve our lot in life, since the die was cast
with our forefathers and mothers. However, if man is a product of his
environment, it would be in his best interest to surround himself with positive
influences. What does your world contain? Look around you. Who are your
friends? Would you classify them as upbeat and forward thinking? Do they support
you in your endeavors and urge you to greater heights? One positive friend is a
treasure beyond compare. Or are they, as Crystal Cathedral pastor Bob Schuller
describes some people he has met, "nagging nabobs of negativity"? The people you
surround yourself with are a major part of your environmental success system. If
these people weigh on you like a lead weight, cut the lines that hold you to
them and soar with those who offer you the sky. They may not be able to do all
that they promise, but they will help you see the possibility of flight. What else does your world contain? What books are you
reading? What television programs are you watching? To what music are you
listening? Do the books add to your store of useful knowledge? Even a book of
well-written fiction can do that. Do these books lift your spirit and make you
feel happy and positive about life in general? Are any of your books geared to
information that will advance your status in your chosen career field? The same
questions can be asked of your television viewing habits. There is a major
difference in impact on your environment when you watch a mind expanding program
like Jeopardy versus when you watch Jerry Springer capitalize on other people’s
misery. Music may be the most insidious of all environmental factors.
Within some of the best beats are housed some of the darkest messages. When I
mention this to my friends, they always reply that they don’t listen to the
words so the negative message doesn’t affect them. Wrong! The unconscious mind
is recording those words just as surely as if it were a fast-food commercial,
and just as surely, you can bet it will play them back to you when you least
expect or want it to. Think to yourself, would you rather start the day
absentmindedly humming the words to "Yesterday" which says in part, "I’m not
half the man I used to be," or the words from the great Oak Ridge Boys’ hit,
"Everyday" which tells us: "Everyday, I want to shake somebody’s hand. Everyday,
I want make somebody know that they can…to take a kind word into the street and
share it with everybody I meet." What great advice. I wouldn’t mind my
subconscious reminding me of words like that every morning. You cannot change your heredity, but with effort, you can
control your environment. If you take charge of your life, you will get a charge
out of life. Bill Hodges is a nationally recognized speaker, trainer, and
syndicated columnist. Hodges may be reached at Hodges Seminars International,
P.O. Box 89033, Tampa, FL 33689-0400. Phone 813/641-0816. Web site: http://www.BillHodges.com
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