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Look Inside for Success
By
Bill Hodges
©2003 Hodges Seminars International For my younger readers and those who have always lived in the
city, a threshing bee was an event, when I was a child living on a farm in
Canada, that brought farm neighbors together to help each other. Each farmer cut
the wheat in his own field and bundled it up in shocks. Someone in the community
who owned a steam engine would bring it to the farm. At about 4 a.m., they would
start the fires to build up a head of steam. The steam engine would then drive
the mechanical thresher, which would be hand-fed the shocks of wheat. That was
the mechanical part of threshing. The truly great part of the threshing bee was that neighbors
got together to help each other bring in the harvest and everyone in the
community contributed. The men would load the wagons in the fields, the children
would help at the threshing machine and all of the women would bring their
particular specialty for the harvest meal. If Mrs. Brown was the blue ribbon pie
winner at the county fair, she brought pies. If Mrs. Smith had the best cured
hams, she would bring a ham. I can tell you it was like going to a county fair
and having the opportunity to sample the "Best of Show" in every category.
Nobody kept track of who brought what or how many hours they worked on a
particular farm. They worked together for the common good, without someone
keeping track of IOU’s. I had almost forgotten about the threshing bee and what a
wonderful thing it was in our community, until I talked with a friend who told
me about his very active and enthusiastic mother and a group to which she
belongs. By the way, his mother is 96 years young and just bought a brand new
car for herself to drive. She has belonged to a group in southeastern Ohio
called We Do As You Like for a number of years. At its apex, the group was 50
members strong. It was dedicated to self-help projects. As I understand it, the
members would meet at the home of one member and help that member do any chore
the member chose. The chore might be painting a wall, darning a sock, or hoeing
a garden. They tell me it was really true that many hands make easy work. Many
tasks that would have been tiresome for a person to do alone became enjoyable
social occasions. Wouldn’t it be great if we could revive that community
spirit, where neighbor helped neighbor without desire for monetary reward? We
can’t bring back the threshing bee, but all is not lost because there are
isolated outposts, where people do help people. Maybe we can use these as models
to expand our community involvement. Habitat for Humanity is one such program.
I’m sure there are others. With a commitment to community, we could have a
Habitat For Our Town, where we as neighbors get together to help each other. Bill Hodges is a nationally recognized speaker, trainer, and
syndicated columnist. Hodges may be reached at Hodges Seminars International,
P.O. Box 89033, Tampa, FL 33689-0400. Phone 813/641-0816. Web site: http://www.BillHodges.com
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